They say it takes two to tango although not always the case sexually with the advent of vibrators for the ladies and porn for the lads who will jerk off happily in front of a monitor with grunts of male chauvinism. But what comes to mind when describing the or drawing a mental picture of having sex varies to different people.
Most words like "hard" and "deep" may pop up in most men"s narrations of their sexual exploits,narrating gory details like "i fucked her so hard" or "I rammed her deeper and deeper" as if the male penis was a tool designed for drilling into the intricate walls of the female vagina.
Sex should involve Foreplay, Coreplay, then Moreplay. 3 simple phases to maximize infinite pleasure for both the omega female and her partner.Unlike the male orgasm that is easily achieved, the female"s is a more complicated art requiring time, attention and precision. And in as much as society defines sex as a linear process including foreplay, vaginal penetration and the male orgasm, the female orgasm must never be undermined. Sexual Health experts at the University of Uttah revealed in a recent report that women reaching their orgasms during sexual intercourse was vital to a woman"s health and prowess. A natural phenomenon most couples fail to realise. Ushering a woman into orgasm is both exhilarating and liberating. When she "comes first" anxiety, stress and pressure are dispensed then the true gentleman"s prize of pure passion is one given freely and truly from the excited and satisfied female.
" I love to make my girlfriend come" Henry 27 from Dagenham said in an interview. I love to experience the whole thing. The release and build up of waves of pleasure, her surrender to ecstasy, the spasm of satisfaction and her momentary loss of self. It turns me on as well . . and even more to know i made it happen. As a woman during sex, you sit high on a throne as a goddess where only you have the combination to the locks! So don"t be afraid to lead him on towards your pleasure Island with foreplay.
During foreplay, which i also term "the playground" avoid any contact to your genitals but let him stimulate other parts of your body allowing your oxytocin wash over you and pervade your bloodstream. This allows proper build-up of sexual tension for both partners. Now; as your sexual tensions are rising, your bodies will be aroused and screaming ! ! Now lets lead him quickly to Coreplay.
You transition from Foreplay to Coreplay with the first clitoral kiss! Here he establishes rhythm and pressure with the persistent attentions of the tongue. Most men would gladly love to be a part of their partner"s orgasmic experience but just don"t know how or where to start! Allow him focus energy on your delicate sensous clitoral head as well as manual stimulation probably your nipples; your sexual tension will continue to build as you approach orgasm. hoop hoop! Be sure to encourage him with your moans of pleasure or simply rubbing his head and ears fondly as most men get quite skirmish after a few minutes into Coreplay. Remember it has to be enjoyable for him as well as it is for you!
You could lose yourself in your daydream as he ushers you towards your orgasm.Maybe you fancy Brad Pitt? Go ahead and imagine he"s down there but be careful not to go screaming Brad ! in your pleasure mode.
We are now approaching Climax please fasten your seat belts. By now your pelvic muscle contractions are maximised with waves of pleasure and the full potential of your orgasmic experience is now realised. The feeling is second to none.Congratulations.
But now he wants Moreplay. You must be flushed with euphoria from all of that release of sexual energy. Now just relax and let him love you. You might want to fondle him to get him sexually excited again if he"s "tired" as well. Moreplay after coreplay involves vaginal penetration and the male orgasm.
Like a piece of dramatic fiction, there is also a structure to the process of arousal. With each act taking its natural place and time in the overall sequence of events; you will create a timeless sexual drama taking you into an orgasm that is both exhilarating and liberating. Its show time ! go get em" tiger !
